Old DayCare Rant and Rave

So I was so mad about this that I couldn't even put it to words last week.

Here's what happened:

Tuesday (of last week), no fever, one loose diaper no other symptoms other than it looked like he was either teething or coming down with a cold since he wasn't as energetic as usual

Wednesday, I called daycare to say that I was going to bring him in later than usual and then called again after I had changed my mind and took him to the doctors instead. Once at the doctor, I called daycare to let them know that they were worried about Strep and to warn the other parents in case the other kids come down with fever.

Thursday, I stayed home with him

Friday, I stayed home with him and then in the evening Daycare called to ask me if I was coming by. I thought that since I owed her payment for the past two weeks that she wanted to get paid. So I had Jay drive over there and drop off the check and pick up the receipt. She never said anything to Jay but instead slipped a note in with the receipt to say that she has been emotionally and physically upset since none of her other kids showed up at daycare for the rest of the week and that she is terminating her services with us.

I told her that it wasn't anything other than a cold but now I've been so mad that I haven't talked to her since.

We went to the doctors today today for a follow-up and when I told them what happened they thought that it was shocking. They said that it was probably good riddance and that I could find better care with a daycare that had a better understanding with babies and their needs/illnesses.

So now we’re at a new dayare – Portia’s Home Daycare who is our neighbor and he’s been there for 3 consecutive days now. Caleb is much more relaxed and now doesn’t require any winding down time when we get home after daycare. Plus, since it’s been cold out here, his outside exposure is down to a few seconds since it only takes us walking him across the street to get to his new daycare.

I couldn’t believe that they could terminate his care like that and I was just so mad that she didn’t even tell me this to my face! I called the daycare licensee people and they said that even though it’s unfortunate, there’s little they can do since she’s privately owned.

All I can say now is that babies get sick and as for causing her emotional distress….there’s probably more to her story than what I’m getting. Whatever the case, hopefully this new daycare will be a better fit.